One of those days
05.23.08 (5:13 pm) [edit]Ever have a day where everything goes wrong?? i am having one of them... started out w/ that guy txting me after i asked him not to contact me any more... than the screw in my dresser drawer came out..so i am trying to fix it and get ready for work... i barely make it to work on time... then a client decides to show up 30 mins early for an apt and catches me in the midst of my breakfast.. so by the time i get back to it ..its cold and nasty... if things couldnt worse.. damn sinus kicked in and aggravated my tooth so now my tooth is throbbing .. and now the icing.... i get an email from a guy saying he sees right through me and i am a gold digger... get this .. b/c i put i dont like cheap guys.. WTF is wrong w/ ppl.. i think he is more pissed b/c i wasn't paying him much mind yesterday and kinda left him hanging ... whatever .. its amazing how retard these ppl are... i cant see to understand why i cant just meet a guy who isnt obsessive / possessive or just a wack job ...lol.. i dunno i am learning that indian men have a category of their own ....... i think i just may have to convince my parents to let me marry out side the race...... i have yet to find a decent guy.....
now dont get me wrong.. i kno everyone makes mistakes and has their faults.... i guess it comes down to what i am willing to tolerate and what i am not....
anywho i am done ranting and raving.....
posted by: PastorDave (reply)
post date: 05.26.08 (8:03 am)
Client shows up 30 minutes early? Offer him a sandwich, and keep on eating. Yeah, I know... just can't do that!
Marry outside the race? Living in this multi-cultural community, I've had the opportunity to be connected with several people from India. They have been very connected with their origins, and I think the idea of marrying outside the culture is not an option. One young man that I know, very smart and a successful professional, recently made the final commitments in his arranged marriage. His parents chose his wife! That seems unimaginable to me, but he accepted it well, and seems to be happily married. It's an amazingly complex world that we live in.
posted by: kgurl1166 (reply)
post date: 05.26.08 (10:12 am)
Reply to: PastorDave
yes, its hard to imagine ... i knew a guy who went to india for a week and came back married... i was dumbfounded.. and you are right marrying outside the race is not an option but a grl can dream right?