making decisions

making decisions

07.05.08 (11:01 pm)   [edit]
making decision is often hard... some people rely on others to make the decision for them or to guide them in the right direction... its often those who are unsure of themselves or simply like being mothered.. I tried to explain to my sister today that our decisions are ours to make .. not to be influenced by others.. u are who u are because of the decisions you made previously... i am not saying they were right or wrong but simply decisions that had an impact on ur life and allowed u to become who u are today ... Often times we make decisions and others frown upon us for making the decisions we made...but i bet ya anything if they were put in the same situation they would exactly what you did/do but yet until they are put into that particular situation they will forever and always think what u did was wrong... I spent a great deal of time today explaining this to her .. yet she couldnt fully comprehend it.. she is one of those who like to be mothered and have her decisions made for her.. but she is slowly letting that go and becoming the product of her decisions that she made... if you are told a lesson from someone who has learned it the hard way... u will take in their advice but u will always and forever experience it because i believe u cant learn from others..u must experience to learn the lesson and to identify the situation in the future.. To be or not to be??? that is a question u must ask urself..... follow thy heart and it shall never fail you.... -- ME